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Toys-R-Me

Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content.” Philippians 4:11

You just had to look around.  When I was growing up, somewhere and sometime between January and December, the bought toys from my birthday and Christmas slowly disappeared. I know some kids take extremely good care of their toys.  I had an adult friend once who took me down in his parent’s basement and there on the shelves were toys from when he was a small boy…all in perfect condition. They looked new though they were fifty years old.  Well, my toys just didn’t fair that well.  I don’t think I was overly harsh with them, but I was adventurous, and I did enjoy taking things apart.

So, the question is, “What do you do when the toys from the store are scarcer than teeth on a hen?  The answer is, “You get creative.”  I wonder how many times I wandered over to one of the building sites across the street from my house and “borrowed” a couple of the surveyor sticks they had put out.  The shorter wedge cut ones made great rubber band guns and the thinner, taller ones made awesome “dirt clod” launchers.  The technique was simple…you simply stuck the end of the stick in the dirt and gave it a swift kick.  Instantly, a dirt clod was on its way to either a target or the kid down the street.  Boy was that fun, though looking back I’m sure the surveyor guys didn’t appreciate their sticks disappearing.

Sometimes, a new toy was just laying around.  That was the age of hula hoops, and they made great “ant bombers.”  All you had to do was check and make sure your sister wasn’t watching, find a way to cut the hula hoop in half, get some matches and you were all set.  Then you had to light one end of the hula hoop which would begin to burn and melt.  As the plastic melted, it dripped to the ground sizzling and burning…the perfect ant bomber.  I must confess a lot of good ants lost their lives that way but don’t worry.  You see sometimes they got me with their stingers before I got them with my firebombs.  Boy…that was fun.

Then, of course, you could make your very own train.  There was always a length of chain laying around the yard and there was always plenty of good, ole soft Florida sand.   All you had to do was grab that chain and drag it through the sand behind you. As you did the sand got pushed aside and chain left a track in the sand. Round and round and up and down we would go leaving tracks everywhere. I can’t tell you how many times and how many hours we played making “train tracks.”

If all else failed, you could sneak into “Daddy’s tool shed.” It was attached to the house and honestly was more of a junk shed than a tool shed but there was cool stuff laying around everywhere.  I remember Daddy had a bunch of one-pound cans of either freon or something like that.  It would attach to a contraption that had a trigger.  It was made to spray liquids from a small glass container.  I discovered if you mashed that trigger the freon coming out would instantly make ice.  It was amazing.  So, I found out that if you got tired of “fire-bombing” the ants, you could freeze them.  Now, don’t call the animal rights people…it was just part of growing up.

I could keep going on, but you probably get the idea that there was plenty to do around the old homestead…and it really was fun.  Back in those days’ television, especially during the day or early afternoon consisted of soap operas or game shows…neither of which was exciting for a young boy.  So, I could learn to like them…NOT…or get creative.  I could have sat around and complained because I didn’t have what other kids had…or get creative.  Well, I chose to get creative…and I am glad I did.  Some of my best memories were out in the backyard just figuring out how to have a little fun.

So, how about you?  Do you find you are discontented and bored with life?  Do you find yourself bemoaning what others have and what you don’t?  Could I suggest that you look “in your backyard” and see what might be there?  It might be an evening drive with the family.  It might be sitting under the tree having some tea or coffee just sittin’ and listenin’. It might be playing with the kids or waving at the cars going by.  Whatever, you might just find some unexpected pleasure…you might find a little peace…you might find a little contentment.  My friend Paul from the New Testament said he had learned to be content wherever and whatever he was doing.  I think that is something all of us need to learn.  Need a little help?  I know I do.  That’s when my Dearest Daddy often shows up just to let me know that He loves me and that no matter what, “He’s got this.”   Bro. Dewayne

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Birthday Wishes and Dreams

Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us, to Him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.” Ephesians 3:20

It came out of nowhere.  A couple of days ago, my wife Judy and I were talking about my upcoming birthday. You know birthdays come and go but occasionally one comes along that is a little more significant. Usually, it marks a time in our life that marks a major transition—like turning 16, or 21 or maybe 30.  Well, for me this next one seems to be significant.  In 32 days, I will be turning seventy—as in seven decades.  Seventy…there’s just something about that. I know birthdays are just a number, but this sounds so…old. When I was a kid, it always seemed that people who had reached seventy also owned a plot of ground in the cemetery. Now for the record, I understand now that isn’t true…but still.

Well, we were chatting and out of the blue she said, “Well, I’m not buying you a Mustang for your birthday.” Now keep in mind that we weren’t talking about that nor was I thinking that, so I was a little taken a back.  There was “no” even before there was a question.  Now to be honest, there has been a recurring dream about me wanting a Mustang convertible. It didn’t have to be fancy or new…just a Mustang. I think it all started when I rented one on vacation. With the roof down, it made me feel cool (no pun intended), young and feisty. So, every once in a while, I would say something like, “Well, before I die…” Oh well, no harm and no foul but it did make me think.

There is a verse in the New Testament part of the Bible where Paul is talking about God—both His ability and generosity.  It is found in Ephesians 3:20 and says this, “Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us, to Him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.” Wow…what an awesome verse.  Now let me share what it means and what it doesn’t mean.

First, it means that nothing, absolutely nothing is beyond the power and imagination of God. If you can dream it, if you can imagine it—with God it is possible. Our Dearest Daddy is all powerful and all knowing.  In fact, He is everything—which leads us to what it doesn’t mean.  It doesn’t mean that God is going to give or do everything we ask for.  He is way too wise for that one.  There are certain things that we don’t need and in fact could even be possibly harmful to us.  And what that means is that we need to trust Him for everything every day.  If we get a no, there must be a good, valid reason.

So, as you journey don’t be afraid to ask God—after all His power and generosity are beyond limit. But remember this…so is His love.  If He says no to something, there is a reason.  And, if you found yourself disappointed with His decision, go ahead and share that with Him too.  You can rest assured that He can handle that too.  After all, He’s got this.  Bro. Dewayne